My Everyday Heroes

A hero is defined as follows:

he·ro /ˈhɪəroʊ/ Show Spelled[heer-oh] 

1. a man of distinguished courage or ability, admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities.

2. a person who, in the opinion of others, has heroic qualities or has performed a heroic act and is regarded as a model or ideal: He was a local hero when he saved the drowning child.

3. the principal male character in a story, play, film, etc.

4. Classical Mythology .

a. a being of godlike prowess and beneficence who often came to be honored as a divinity.

b. (in the Homeric period) a warrior-chieftain of special strength, courage, or ability.

c.(in later antiquity) an immortal being; demigod.

When we think of hero's we often think of the ones we read or hear about in stories, movies, fairy tales, and comics. They are the brave ones who stand up and fight for the truth and what we know to be right. They are the people we dream of as kids. The ones we admire from a far and hope to one day find in real life. They are our knights in shinning armor known as the Disney Princes. Our defenders of the weak known as Batman, Superman, and the Ninja Turtles. They are the brave who lead the fight like Captain America. They are who we dream about being and dream about finding in real life when we one day grow up. 

And sometimes with all of this dreaming we forget that heroes really exist. We forget that they are real and that the that ones we dream about were all inspired by the real life version of that hero. Every Disney Prince has a real life counterpart. The guy who comes into the world out of nowhere and sweeps the maiden off her feet. The man who is just a little ruff around the edges but will take you on grand adventures and rescue and defend you at a moments notice. We forget that there are still defenders of the weak. Every Batman and ninja turtle was model after someone who really existed. There are still people who will stand up and fight for those who can't fight for themselves. And most of all there are still those who are willing to stand up and lead the fight in the battle to protect our freedoms and rights just like Captain America. All of the heroes that we dream about exist in the real life versions.  And sometimes they are even closer then we think. 

And sometimes the hero in your life may take on a new form. Sometimes that hero turns out to be the person who makes you laugh. It could be a person who lifts you up when all you want to do is fall. It could be the person that brings you back to reality and helps you get back on your feet after your dreams have crumbled.  A lot of times these heroes come not in the versions of the Prince, or Batman, or Captain America. But they come in the form of something we see much more often. These heroes are often what we call friends, family, parents, teachers, and neighbors. Sometimes they even come in the form of a stranger who just happened to cross your path when you needed them too. These people become our everyday heroes. They become the ones that we call on for help. They becomes the ones that we lean on when we can't stand on our own. And they are the ones who help guide us in our lives, even when we don't want to follow. 

And I for one, am grateful. I am grateful to the friend who bought me sherbet because she could tell I was down. I am grateful for those who pull me back to reality and then help me find my way through. I am grateful to the men who came to my rescue when my car decided not to start, and then came to my rescue throughout the week when it continued to have a mind of its own. I am grateful to the stranger who told me that she thought I would be very good and what I do. 

So, thank you. Thank you to all of the everyday heroes in my life and in the world. Thanks for letting me call you my family and friends. My neighbors and teachers, and sometimes even my strangers. Thank you for being who you are and for doing the great things that you do. And for those of you reading this thinking that what you do for those around you is just a small act or doesn't amount to anything, you are wrong. For even a smile can be the greatest heroic act for the person who needs it.  

Book Lover

I am an avid book lover. It is true. I love books. I love reading them. I love hearing them. And I love the memories I have of experiences with them throughout my life. Now, I have not always been a book lover. In fact, when I was younger my mom thought that I would hate reading forever.

 My mom loved to read. She loved all kinds of books. Childrens' books, mysteries, adventures, chick flicks and most others. Growing up she would read to us kids all of the time. I always remember having books in the house. She would buy them for us, read them to us, and do all she could to get us to like them. My older sister loved books from the start. She loved to hear the stories, loved to look at the pictures, and when she was old enough she loved to read them herself. And for awhile it looked like she was going to be the only other book lover in the family. For you see, as a kid, I didn't love to read, in fact, I didn't even like reading. I didn't mind listening to stories, but I would rather watch a movie instead. And as far as the pictures went, well I would rather draw my own, and when it came down to it, I just didn't like to read them. My younger brother was never much of a reader either. He couldn't sit still long enough to make it through a book so there wasn't much hope for getting him to like it, let a lone love it. 

But one day the book bug bit me. It didn't happen until the summer before I entered Junior High. I had started to get a little more into books at the end of my elementary years but I still hadn't found a love for them yet. I would read a childrens' book every now and then, but mostly for the pictures. It still hadn't occurred to that you could get lost in the words yet. But somehow books had started to grow on me. I had started to find an interest int hem and was even curious about them. My mom bought me a couple of books from the book fairs at school and my grandma gave me two for my birthday. At first they just sat on my shelves. I still didn't have the desire to spend the time it took to read them. Then one summer day I picked one up and started to read the first page. The first page lead to the second and then to the third and pretty soon I realized that I had read the whole first chapter. But, that is not what surprised me. What surprised me was that I then wanted to read the second. I was curious to see what was going to happen.

Over the next week I made my way through the book. I would read a chapter here and there and found that I was reading a bigger chunk each time I opened the book. It wasn't long until I was finished and realized that I enjoyed it. Over the rest of the summer and into junior high, I found that I was reading more and more and that I was enjoying it. I was finding that I could get lost in a book and the characters of the story. I was finding that books could be a great adventure. And before long I realized that I not only liked reading, but that I loved it. And as I have gotten older and the more books I have read, the bigger that loves grows. I know find that I love all kinds of books. Childrens books,murder  mysteries, adventures, chick flicks, some history, and many others.

That first book that I really remember reading on my own, that one that really started it all, is called The Skull of Truth. It was one of the ones that my mom got me from the book fair at school when I was finishing 6th grade. It is one that intrigued me enough to continuing reading beyond the first few pages. And It is one that I still own today. It sits on my shelf whee it waits to be read again. Where it waits for someone to come along and open it's pages so that it can take them on an adventure. But it doesn't sit alone. For over the years I have found a great love for books and have purchased many. I have received many has gifts as well and they now all sit on the shelves waiting there turn to be read. For that is one thing that I love most about books, you don't just get lost in them once, but you get lost in them every time you open there pages. Every time you read their words the stories come to life and the adventures begin. And getting lost in their worlds is something I enjoy doing often. 

So when my friend came across this short film she new I would love it. She sent me the link and I watched it the next morning and simply smiled. You fellow books lovers will understand why, and if you aren't a book lover, . . . well, you just might enjoy it anyway. And who knows, maybe it will inspire you to pick up a book of your own and see if you too can get lost in the world of a book.

The Fantastic Flying Books of Mr. Morris Lessmore (2011)

What Christmas Means to Me

December is a month that is looked forward to by many. To most kids it means Santa Clause and gifts, to many in the world it means a hectic month of shopping and parties to attend, and to many Christians it means a celebration of the birth of Christ. To me Christmas means a variety of things. It means all of the above, but it also means so much more. To me it means family, friends, and memories in the making with them all. Every December since I can remember has been busy and full of people. And in all honesty, I like it that way. For you see, to me Christmas means spending time with those that I love. It means gathering together with friends and family doing a variety of different things. Some of the things we do are always the same. These would be the traditions. The decorating the tree, the listening to Nat King Cole, the Family Christmas parties with the same food that we have always had and that we always look forward to, the baking of treats, the Christmas movies that always get watched, and the stories that always get read. And every year along with all of these traditions there are always a few other things that I tend to do with others that add to the fun of the season. As you can tell, and as you probably know, December becomes a very busy month. And since I have been mia from posting I figured I would let you know what I have been up to. So here is my month of December in both words and pictures.

~ Festival of Trees

~ Craft Nights- Many nights, and some afternoons, were spent making gifts for some of those I love

~ Oyler Family Party
 

~ Messiah Christmas Concert - this was a new experience for me. I went with some friends to see the Messiah concert that is held at the Grand Theater. Scott had been many times before and said we had to join him. Melissa and I eagerly joined and had quite the time. The concert is a spin off of Handel's Messiah. I felt Like I was at a Baptist concert. The music was good and the atmosphere was fun. It wasn't at all what I was expecting, but I thoroughly enjoyed the evening and the show.

~ Christmas Shopping with Mom

~ The Eclipse Christmas Concert - Every year since they started doing Christmas concerts I have attended their show. Each year the company has changed a little, but it is always great and we always love the show. This year was no different. Jenny, Mindy and I met up for dinner at the Training Table and then headed down the hill to the show. The show was great as always and we had a fabulous time singing along and dancing in our seats. This concert is definitely becoming a favorite tradition.

 

~ Fab 5 Christmas Party - I do not think words are needed to, or even would, describe this event. It is always full of laughter, love, and great memories by the time it is over. This year was no different with enchiladas, rice, beans, gingerbread houses, gifts, music, and everything that comes with hanging out with some of your best friends.

~ Zoo Lights - Over the last few years I have heard people talk about going to see the Zoo Lights at Hogel Zoo. I have wanted to go and see them for my self and this year I did. It was fun to walk around and see all of the displays. There were a few of animals chasing each other and some of them fighting where I was a little thrown off, but I guess that is what animals do. My favorite display was the under the sea one. It made me smile. Overall I enjoyed the night and liked the displays as well as the company of Melissa and Scott. I will probably have to go again sometime in the future. 

~ Tuesday Movie Nights - I love having a group of friends to get together with every Tuesday to make dinner and watch movies. It was especially fun this December when we watched a variety of Christmas shows. Some that were old favorites and some that were new.

~Stake Temple Night - I love going to the Temple anyway, but it was a great experience to go with members of my ward and stake. It was fun to have all the people there in the same age group and the people I knew working that night. I will definitely be going each month.

~ Dinner at the Roof and Temple Square- It turns out that I have a friend who just happens to work at the Roof. Melissa and I wanted to visit him so we called and he got us a reservation. That was the first time that I had actually eaten at the Roof. It was such a great atmosphere and sitting by the window where you could look out and see the temple and all of Temple Square was awesome. The food was delicious and it was nice to just sit and chill over dinner for 2 hours. Plus it was also fun to visit Jeff and see him at work. We will probably have to go and visit him again one day. After dinner we went and looked at the lights on Temple Square. This is something that I always love doing. I love looking at all of the displays and the peace that comes from just being on temple grounds.

~Whiting Family Christmas Party - This is a party that I look forward to every December. We always have the same food of egg sausage casserole, scones, and fruit with juice and hot chocolate to drink and we always play the same game of white elephant, and I love every minute of it. We are a pretty close family and it is always a great day when we can get together and laugh about old memories while making new ones.

~ Girls Lunch and Pedicures - Sometimes it is really nice being a girl :)

~ Christmas Eve Dinner - Stuffed steak, mashed potatoes, gravy, steamed veggies, cheese sauce, homemade rolls, chili sauce, stuffing.... Yum

~ Christmas Day Adventures - Going from house to house, family, laughter, fun....and this year a glorious sacrament meeting with joyful and inspiring music of Christ. There is no other way I would have spent Christmas morning then sitting in church with my family and singing Silent Night with guitar accompaniment. It was simple and sweet and brought a joy and peace that only the spirit can bring. 

~ Whiting Family Photos - It has been many years since one of these was taken and I am glad that we took a new one. Especially since nine people have been added to this wonderful family. I will never forget however, the antics of the photographer and how weird we thought he was. Oh, what memories we have from this night. 

~ Fab 5 Sleepover - New Years is always an adventure and is especially fun when you get to spend it with friends doing the simple things that you all love. Granted, this year it was the night before New Years Eve, but still just as much fun.

~ My Savior - But my favorite part of December, even with all of this, is simply celebrating the birth and the life of  Jesus Christ. Everyday I am grateful for his birth, and even more grateful for his life. For if he was just born in a manger and did nothing else, then all he would have been was a baby in a manger. But he did so much more. He lived the life he was meant to live. He brought joy, peace, mercy, knowledge, hope, charity, lessons and words of a loving Heavenly Father, faith, baptism, repentance, and the Atonement. And he brought all of this with a humble and graceful spirit that has not been surpassed. He was everything that a man should aspire to be in all human characteristics.He was able to teach others lessons of forgiveness, lessons of love, lessons of good works, lessons of charity, lessons of God, lessons of repentance, and do it all with kindness and faith in those around him. So even though I am grateful for his birth and know that it is worth celebrating, I am even more grateful for the life that He lived. And that is something that is worth celebrating, because I know that it is because of him that I can find my way back home to my Father in Heaven. It is because of him and the infinite Atonement that he provided that I can grow and learn and fill peace and love and have all things restored unto me.It is because I know that he still lives today that I can live again.  (art by David Bowman and Greg Olsen)

My Child

 Innocence

 Joy

 Lost and Found

THE MASTER'S TOUCH

Discouraged and alone, we're not easily consoled
The school of life gets difficult, just as we were told.

Doubt shrinks us at the threshold of the darkened way,
Despair creeps in upon us and is hard to keep at bay.

Light now dims as the shadows grow in length
Heaviness engulfs us; we stop to pray for strength.

It seems we're going nowhere; life's a dead end street,
Relief is what we plead for, when it all feels like defeat!

The fun has disappeared; dropping out is on our mind,
The test has overwhelmed us, the answers hard to find.

In these trying moments we must stop and be so still
That we can feel His promptings and know that they are real.

Only then can we be ready to sense the Master's touch,
To know He's always there and that He loves us very much!

He knows just how we feel He's been this way before,
He's also climbed these steps He's walked this corridor.

He is our tender tutor sent here to be our guide,
All wisdom opens to us when He is by our side.

Earth's halls are not so dim when the Master lights the way,
He reveals a "world of wonder" that brings joy throughout our stay.

Hand in hand He'll lead us to a life that never ends,
To a brighter day in a world unseen, together eternal friends.

Greg Olsen - 2010

Uprooted

There are many things that can be uprooted in this world. I watched many of them come up this last week with the wind. Stop signs snapped in two and blown away. Fences destroyed and falling over, power lines broken and lying in the road. Power polls falling over. Trees split in two with branches broken off. And whole trees completely uprooted and on their sides.

While looking at these trees, I realized something about them. Most of them that had fallen over were pine trees. Trees that where tall, wide and fat with needles. Trees that had grown upward for years. But
I also realized that they were trees with very short root systems. They all had many roots but none of them were very long or went very deep into the ground. The root systems had been good for the threes and had kept them growing and standing upright through everyday life. But their systems had failed them when the true trial of the wind came. With the wind blowing strong each on of the trees could not stay standing. They were quickly uprooted and left alone on their sides. They had crumpled to the ground and were left to be chopped up and thrown away.

I realized in a way we are like these trees. We grown up in the world. A world filled with destruction and trials as much as it is filled with good. And as we grow up in this world we need to make sure that we are growing down as well. Each of us have our own root systems that need to be growing. And they need to be growing deep into spiritually solid ground. For it is our root system that will either keep us strong and standing tall or crumble when the wind comes.

I started thinking about my own root system and realized that currently I have not been doing much to strengthen it. In fact, I am pretty sure that some of the things I have been doing have probably weakened it. And I decided that some things were going to have to change.

Since that storm I have continued to think about uprooted trees. I have also continued to think about my own root system and what I want it to be like. Through all of this thinking, I realized along the way some of the things that help strengthen it and that help it grow. and I realized that it always seems to come back to the little things that I am realizing in fact are not so little. These would be the things of prayer, reading and studying the scriptures, attending all church meetings, fasting, temple attendance, faith, charity, and repentance.  It is all of these things and more that not only help to build and strengthen our foundation, but strengthen our root system as well. It is by doing these little things that give us the strength and power to put off, and one day overcome, the natural man that is within us all. These are the things that help us stand mighty and strong so that when the winds come we shall be able to remain upright and be even stronger for it. For it is only by growing deeper that we are then able to stand taller.

Friday's Fabulous Finds

This post is long overdo. I have been thinking about it for weeks and have not gotten around to posting it yet. But here it goes. This post is dedicated to all of the Fabulous Friday Finds of November. I promise, I did do them....I just didn't find the time to write about them.

November 4
The first fabulous find on the month was one of my all time favorites. For you see, it happens to be the day that I went through the temple. It was an amazing experience and I have gone back often. My favorite part of the day was the peace and joy that I found by just being there. I know that it was the right course of action for me to take and that going back often is how I can feel that same peace and joy again. I also loved being in the celestial room and finding those I loved around me. It brought me great joy to know that we could all be there together and together through the eternities. There is no other place like that of the Temple.

November 11
This Friday find I owe to one of my best friends, Brett Brown. She is the one who introduced me to this place and I fell in love with it immediately. It is called Pizzaria Lemone. Now this is not your ordinary pizza place. This place is an Italian restaurant. The decor is pretty cool with the map of Italy on the wall and the wooden tables and low lighting. Plus their pizza and salads are divine and best of all, freshly made. You first walk in and pick your pizza from a variety of choices on the menu on the wall. Then they hand toss the dough and make your pizza right then. Freshly tossed and mixed salads are prepared as well. I got the Viola pizza. It has blackberries on it which I though was weird at first, but they totally made the pizza. It gave it this sweet tangy taste. I enjoyed the meal and the company and I will defiantly be going back again.

Pizzera Limone
Location: 1380 E Fort Union Blvd, Cottonwood Heights
Phone:(801) 733-9305
Website: www.pizzerialimone.net
Prices: Good
Food: Delicious

November 18
This Friday's find is dedicated to the simple joys of life. Things like clean laundry, fresh baked cookies, your favorite song on the radio, a message from a friend, and so many more. Todays simple joy and Friday find came from the candy jar at work. More specifically the bag to refill the candy jar. It was a bag of tootsie rolls, gum drops, and tootsie pops. The jar was pretty empty, as it is after every few days of kids taking candy, and I grabbed the bag to refill it. I was pulling treats out and happened to come across a color of tootsie pop that I had never had. I was looking at the package wondering what flavor it was and soon read that is was pomegranate. I sat for a moment wondering if I had ever come across a pomegranate tootsie pop before and knew that I hadn't. It made me smile to find something so simple and new to brighten the day. And of course I quickly ate it and enjoyed every moment it lasted. It was a small and simple joy and if you ever come across one, let me know. I would love to have another.

November 25
This Friday was full of all kinds of fabulous finds seeing as it was Black Friday and we had some shopping to do. Technically our finds started Thursday night as we headed over to Walmart for the deals that started at 10:00 pm. there we found a Wii game (which I almost died getting) and some other gifts. From there we headed to Target were we stood outside for over an hour for their deals that started at midnight. Wendi and I stood in line with some pretty fun girls and the time soon flew by. When it was our time to enter the store we went straight to the movies and got loads of good deals. We also left with a game for Chris, PJ's, and a cake mix for the next day. After Target we went and switched the car for the truck and then headed to Sears in Ogden. We waited again out is the cold and soon got inside for the gifts we were after. From sears we went back and dropped off the gifts and then headed to Beto's for breakfast since it was 6am at that point. The morning ended with a long hot shower and then crawling into bed at about 6:30. It was a great night full of laughter, fun, and memories to last a lifetime. And if you ever decide to go Black Friday shopping here are a few tips:
*Make a plan of what you want and what stores everything is at. This way you know what you are after and where you need to head.
*Go in a group. It is always better to be with a few people for varies reasons which include taking shifts in the cold and splitting up to get the gifts you want in a store.
*Take cell phones. You will need a way to contact the people in your group.
*Warm clothes are a must. Layers are the best.
*If you just want to hit one store I would suggest Target. They are very organized and have a great system set up.

All in all the Friday finds of November were pretty Fabulous. I enjoyed them every one and will start doing Fabulous Finds again in January. December is a bit busy and pretty full of events, family, and friends.